[Enhance](docker) hoist IP_HOST detection and improve script robustness

[zgxme]

What problem does this PR solve?

1. Move IP_HOST detection from start_hive2() to global scope to ensure
   environment variables are accessible by all background services.
2. Use 'ip addr' instead of 'ifconfig' for more reliable IP detection.
3. Add -f flag to rm commands in spark cleanup to prevent exit on missing files.

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